Michael Canale Wins for Best Hair Color for Jennifer Aniston–Find Out How to Get Her Color

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Congratulations! Michael Canale was named “Best Colorist” for Jennifer Aniston’s color in Elle’s August 2015 issue.

He won for Aniston’s iconic look–which was created by using his ansenal of techniques to create the perfect, natural, sun-kissed blonde.

Lives of Style: What did you do to get the award-winning look?

Michael: I did paper thin highlights where you remove the foil and “come up with bleach, so that the hair next to the highlight section gets a sun-kissed effect. I always lift the highlights to the perfect color before coming them up so that I don’t have to do corrective measures.  And I used a light golden gloss.

Lives of Style: This is not something someone should try at home, correct? 

Michael: This is a dangerous technique and I don’t suggest doing this at home or with someone who doesn’t understand the technique.  You have to have specific textures and lifting aids that I work with. which have to be used properly and are customized with my techniques. 

Effectively Communicate in Any Relationship

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Lives of Style’s DatingSpeak ™ ©2015 addresses questions about dating, relationships and communication.

Our Lives of Style authority–Laura Pugliese, shares must-know dating “Do’s and Don’ts” that will help you find success in your relationships.

Lives of Style: I have gone out on three dates with a man who I am crazy about. He’s smart, successful and kind. We slept together after the third date and now I feel extremely high but also guilty. We don’t have any agreement and I don’t know if I am going to hear from him again. Should I call him to check in to see where we stand?

Laura: You brought up not having an agreement, so I am going to presume you are familiar with the boundaries I teach for relationships, and how I always suggest making sure you are in a mutually agreed up exclusive commitment BEFORE having sex. Especially, as a woman, you are at much high risk than a man (unless he is around 50 and up) of becoming not only emotionally, but physically bonded (Oxytocin bonding) to a man you become sexual with.

You can certainly do what you want to, but I do not think you should call him to see where you stand. I think you should realize that there is a chance that this man thinks you are both okay with being casual because you never told him otherwise. Go about your business and your life.

If and when he calls you to see you again, that is the time you can say to him, “I made a mistake, and I want to talk with you about it. Is now a good time?” Wait for him to say, “Yes.” Then you can say, “I am a grown woman and I take responsibility for the choice I made in having sex with you on our date the other last. I realize I did not ask you what your thoughts were about where we stand, and I did not tell you that I do not want to be sexual with you or anyone on a casual basis. I want to be in a committed and exclusive relationship with the man I have sex with, and I want to tell you that now before we go out again. What are your thoughts about what I am sharing with you, and what is it that you want?”

Tricky Communication Techniques

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Lives of Style’s DatingSpeak ™ ©2015 addresses questions about dating, relationships and communication.

Our Lives of Style authority–Laura Pugliese, shares must-know dating “Do’s and Don’ts” that will help you find success in your relationships.

Lives of Style: I’m 62 and have been divorced for 2 decades, but I’ve decided I really want to find a partner. I’ve been online for a few months and recently had an early morning date with a man who seemed interesting. The only thing that bothered me was that he kept saying, “There are lots of rich divorcees out there,” but then he’d change the subject and say that he is looking for a woman to spoil and cherish. What can I say to “flush him out”? We have another date next weekend.

Laura: It is hard to know the reason why he kept saying that since he did not elaborate and give a reason for it. Also, sometimes people babble and say random things on first dates out of nervousness. Pay attention to see that the majority of what he speaks about is in line with him wanting to be a gentleman who will cherish a woman he is with. If he makes that comment again at that time you can say, “I have noticed that you have mentioned several times that there are a lot of rich divorcees out there. I want to understand what meaning that has to you, but I honestly do not know how to respond to that. What are your thoughts about that, and what is your reason for mentioning it to me several times?”

Follow These Celebrity Tried-and-True Tips for Lasting Hair Color

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Lives of Style’s Monday with Michael ™ ©2015, provides expert advice on hair color, styling, care and conditioning—for a more beautiful YOU.

Our Lives of Style Authority: Master Colorist to the Stars: Michael Canale–in the business for over 30 years, is renowned for creating natural sun-streaked hair and classic blonde shades that get raves.

One of Hollywood’s most sought-after colorists, Canale’s clients have included movie star royalty like Jennifer Aniston, Cameron Diaz, Penelope Cruz, Heidi Klum, Carolyn Murphy, Carmen Electra, Denise Richards and more.

Canale is a staple on Allure’s “Best of the Best” as a superior hair colorist who “lightens blondes to a baby-like perfection.”

Canale shares tips on how to get and keep the color you want.

Lives of Style: What should you do before you go to the salon which can help your colorist get the correct color?

Michael: Clean your hair before you go to the salon for color. While there is some controversy about this, it is a fact that it takes longer for the chemicals to break through dirt to perform the reaction desired. If the hair is not too dirty, the dirt will help protect the scalp from the sometimes harsh reaction to the skin. “Too dirty” is a relative term, and includes styling products and processes. So you should always have a clean head when you plan on getting your hair colored. And you should always wear your hair as you normally do. If you don’t then you might get a look that you wont like on an everyday basis. So if you usually wear your hair straight go to the salon with straight hair. If you usually curl your hair go to the salon with curls. This will give your stylist a set idea of what will look good on you on a day to day basis.

What to Say in Any Dating Situation

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Lives of Style’s DatingSpeak ™ ©2015 addresses questions about dating, relationships and communication.

Our Lives of Style authority–Laura Pugliese, shares must-know dating “Do’s and Don’ts” that will help you find success in your relationships.

Lives of Style: My crush just told me that he isn’t interested in getting serious right now. We have gone out a few times only and haven’t had sex yet. He said that he wants to continue hanging out with me because he likes me. What do I do with this?

Laura: Hanging out is a term for keeping it cool and casual, and he also separately told you that he isn’t interested in getting serious right now. He is being clear and honest, which is good. You can certainly continue to accept invitations with him, but it is in your best interest to also continue accepting dates with other men who ask you out to avoid hyper-focusing on this one guy who is not showing any indication that he wants to be in an exclusive relationship with you. Separately, it is in your best interest not to have sex with him or anyone until or unless you do enter an exclusive relationship to avoid the pain and complications of becoming sexually and emotionally bonded to someone who is not committed to you.

Tips on How to Get the Perfect Hair Color from Celebrity Colorist Michael Canale

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Lives of Style’s Monday with Michael ™ ©2015, provides expert advice on hair color, styling, care and conditioning—for a more beautiful YOU.

Our Lives of Style Authority: Master Colorist to the Stars: Michael Canale–in the business for over 30 years, is renowned for creating natural sun-streaked hair and classic blonde shades that get raves.

One of Hollywood’s most sought-after colorists, Canale’s clients have included movie star royalty like Jennifer Aniston, Cameron Diaz, Penelope Cruz, Heidi Klum, Carolyn Murphy, Carmen Electra, Denise Richards and more.

Canale is a staple on Allure’s “Best of the Best” as a superior hair colorist who “lightens blondes to a baby-like perfection.”

Canale shares tips to get the color you want.

Lives of Style: If someone hasn’t gone to a professional colorist before and their hair is brassy so they are ready to what should they say to their colorist so it doesn’t become a coloring disaster?

Michael: I’m glad that you’re taking the leap to get the color that you want. Be specific with your colorist. If you don’t like warm tones, tell your colorist you don’t want any red in your color. People confuse warmth with caramel, when caramel is actually gold.

Working with your natural base color always delivers the most natural results. Using a color mixture your colorist should connect your summer shade with highlights in the darker root area for a natural blend. And top with a gloss to add dimension and depth.

Lives of Style: How much lighter can you go from your natural color?

Michael: Keep your highlights within one or two shades of your natural color. If you go over two shades, you’ll produce a flawed result that will shift in the days after your treatment, and you’ll lose control of the final product.

Your Dating Questions Answered

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Lives of Style’s DatingSpeak ™ ©2015 addresses questions about dating, relationships and communication.

Our Lives of Style authority–Laura Pugliese, shares must-know dating “Do’s and Don’ts” that will help you find success in your relationships.

Lives of Style:  If a man who I like asks me to go away for a weekend, can I say, “yes” if we are not yet in a relationship? Or do I need to negotiate a relationship first?

Laura: You can say, “yes” to what you feel comfortable doing. It’s up to you to decide what your boundaries and comforts are. If you are totally accepting of a casual relationship, then you could agree to going casually.

If you are dating with the purpose of finding a serious relationship then my suggestion is that you let him know you don’t feel comfortable sleeping in the same room with or having sex with him or anyone unless you are in an exclusive relationship. You can say, “Thank you for inviting me to go away with you. I would love to go, but since I don’t know what you have in mind for accommodations I want to be honest with you and tell you that I have traditional values and do not feel comfortable sharing a room with a man who I am not in an exclusive relationship with. What are your thoughts?”

If you would rather decline until you are in an exclusive relationship, then you can say, “Thank you for inviting me. It sounds fun, however I do not feel comfortable going away with a man who I am not in an exclusive relationship with. What are your thoughts?”

How to Handle Any Thorny Communications Issues

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Lives of Style’s DatingSpeak ™ ©2015 addresses questions about dating, relationships and communication.

Our Lives of Style authority–Laura Pugliese, shares must-know dating “Do’s and Don’ts” that will help you find success in your relationships.

Lives of Style: My husband has a work/live space in his artistic studio and he was working late and suggested that he sleep in his studio. Right away I felt rejected. How can I talk with him in the future so I don’t have hurt feelings?

Laura: If your husband was working hard late into the night with the knowledge that he had another long day ahead of him the next, then he was probably weighing all of that and concluded that staying in his studio was a more logical choice for him that evening. For some reason you received that information as something personal against you. Feelings come as they come without logic, so it may be a matter of remembering to stop and think before you respond from an emotional place.

In the future when a similar issue arises you can say, “Honey, thank you for telling me your suggestion about (insert subject). You have every right to do what you want, however I want to be honest and tell you that I am feeling sensitive about you doing that. I don’t want to be selfish, and I do want support your decision in doing what’s best for you in this situation. It would feel best to me if this wasn’t a frequent occurrence because I love sleeping with you at night. What are your thoughts?”

How to Avoid Confrontational Fireworks in Your Relationships

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Lives of Style’s DatingSpeak ™ ©2015 addresses questions about dating, relationships and communication.

Our Lives of Style authority–Laura Pugliese, shares must-know dating “Do’s and Don’ts” that will help you find success in your relationships.

Lives of Style: A man who I have dated four times asked me to be his girlfriend. I’m not that attracted to him but he’s very successful and we have “nice” dates. What should I say to him because I’m not sure he’s the one?

Laura: In order to have a mutually fulfilling relationship there needs to be an equitable amount of chemistry, compatibility, honesty, and the ability to communicate and negotiate with each other. It sounds to me like you do like this man, but you don’t feel the romantic chemistry at this time necessary to commit yourself to him in a relationship.
If you were a man I would suggest ending it at t his point because men are designed to know right away if they find a woman physically attractive. Women are built differently. It doesn’t happen in every case, but as a woman it is sometimes possible to become more attracted to a man over time as you get to know him.

However, since he is asking you to be his girlfriend right now, he deserves to know where you stand currently. You could say, “I want to talk with you about what you asked me in regards to wanting me to be your girlfriend.  Is now a good time?” Wait for him to say, “Yes.” Then you can say, “I like you and enjoy our dates. I also respect you and want to be completely honest with you. At this time I do not feel a strong enough romantic chemistry to accept becoming your girlfriend. I do not know if the chemistry will develop more over time or not, and I do not want to be deceitful or lead you on. I understand completely if you do not want to take that risk and continue to date me knowing this. What are your thoughts about what I am telling you?”

Handle Any Dating Dilemma Ease

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Lives of Style’s DatingSpeak ™ ©2015 addresses questions about dating, relationships and communication.

Our Lives of Style authority–Laura Pugliese, shares must-know dating “Do’s and Don’ts” that will help you find success in your relationships.

Lives of Style: My current #1 is Dan. He just texted that he is free on Sunday night or Monday for lunch. It’s easier for me to go on a date on a Sunday night than slipping away from the office to have a lunch date however I have daytime plans on Sunday with another man. Should I change the plans to be available for my date on Sunday night because I don’t like to have two dates in one day?

Laura: You can certainly change the daytime Sunday plans if you want to, however I want you to consider a few important things. You are still in the stage of dating where you are accepting dates with various men and have not been asked to be exclusive yet. With that in mind, the gentleman who asked you out for Sunday during the day made a point to secure a date with you first, which indicates that it was a priority. Although you have ranked Dan as your #1, since he has not yet asked you to date him exclusively we have no way of knowing at this time where you rank with him. Rankings with men can change depending on each experience you have getting to know them, how strongly the chemistry builds between you, how much they make seeing you a priority, and how they treat you.

Integrity caries energy as well, therefore it is my opinion that it would be best to keep your word and honor the date you agreed to with the gentleman for Sunday during the day. As for Dan, if you really want to see him also, then say “yes’ to the date on Sunday evening and accept that you will have a full day and evening, or meet him for lunch on Monday. Think about which of the two dates with Dan would feel more comfortable, and pick that one.

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